Attachment styles, that is, bonding styles, develop early and are generally maintained throughout life. Secure attachment The adult responds to the needs and demands of the child in a consistent, stable and secure manner. That is, they relate to him through frequent verbal and physical expressions of affection. The result is that the child grows trusting in himself and in others, allowing in a future more autonomy and better social skills. On the other hand we also have Avoidant attachment is one of the different types of attachment that we can develop when we are young,